8 Reasons to Remain a Virgin for as Long as You Can ...


Without sounding like a complete Grandma, I want to share a bunch of valid reasons to remain a virgin for as long as you can.

Don't worry, I am not about to label foreplay as a sin and call man's penis a creation of the devil.

Sex is cool guys;

I just think that some of the reasons to remain a virgin as long as you can could make it even better in the long run...

1. Hello Vagina!

Do you know your bits?

What feels good and what doesn't?

It is a well known fact that if you have a hard time pleasing yourself, the man in your life won't have too much luck either.

Before considering letting a pubescent boy fumble nervously downstairs, how about taking the time to become familiar with your own body and what you enjoy.

Waiting to have sex and making yourself climax instead, will not only build your self confidence but no doubt make you a better lover in the future.

2. It’s Not like the Movies

Unless you are actually dating Ryan Gosling and he’s up for a bit of role play, your first time will be nothing like The Notebook ladies.

At best, your first time will be with someone you love and feel safe and comfortable with.

In reality, sex can be awkward and uncomfortable so you want to make sure it is with someone you really care about and can be yourself around.2

3. You Have Years of Sexy Times Ahead

The average female lives to the age of 75-85 years old, so say you have sex at 20 then that means that you have over 55-65 years to bump uglies with whoever you please.

So what’s the hurry?

4. Give Me the Box

Have you ever watched a child receive a present but be more interested in the box it came in?

I liken this situation to the relationship many of us have with foreplay.

Foreplay can be amazing but just like the child who grows up and starts to discard the box to get straight to the gift, once you have sex foreplay often gets skipped over.3

Enjoy foreplay;

enjoy holding off and exploring each others' bodies and getting as comfortable as possible before you take that next step.

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