9 Things All Virgins Need to Stop Stressing about and Chill ...

When you're a virgin, it's scary to think about what sex will be like. However, there's no point in stressing over certain aspects of it. Listen to Gurl's advice and stop worrying about these things:

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If He'll Know You're a Virgin

If He'll Know You're a Virgin There's no reason to hide the fact that you've never slept with someone. If he finds out, he'll consider himself lucky to be your first!

If You'll Bleed

If You'll Bleed If your hymen tears, there could be a little blood, but it won't be like anything out of a horror movie.

If "It" Will Fit

If "It" Will Fit It doesn't matter how big he is or how small you are, because it'll definitely fit.

If You're Doing It Right

If You're Doing It Right You can't be a pro your first time. Practice makes perfect.

If He Likes What You Look like

If He Likes What You Look like As long as you've showered, he shouldn't mind what you look like below the belt. He'll just be happy you're stripping for him.

Famous Quotes

Silence at the proper season is wisdom, and better than any speech.

Plutarch

If It's Going to Be Good

If It's Going to Be Good Everyone feels differently about sex, but you won't know how much you like it until you try it.

When It'll Actually Happen

When It'll Actually Happen Don't push yourself to have sex before you're ready. It'll happen when it happens.

How Much It Will Hurt

How Much It Will Hurt If your man gets you excited enough for sex and goes slow, then you shouldn't feel any pain. Sex is supposed to be enjoyable, after all.

What Others Will Think

What Others Will Think Your body is none of their business. Do what makes you happy and stop worrying about your reputation.

If you're a virgin, don't stress yourself out too much by worrying about sex. Do you worry about any of these things?

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I'm a virgin and I don't worry about more than half of these things.

For all the people arguing, places that teach abstinence and no sex until marriage have the highest teen pregnancy rates (;

Well said too much drama but most girl through the stress however!

Lol to most of the comments sex is something that happens to take your virginity and then your like the rest of us women! Your unique just the way you are wait for that special person if he loves you you can test him let him or her prove worthy enough to enter your body!!!!!!

And Paula - Honestly don't worry about other people's sex life. It's none of your business. It's not a bad thing to sleep with one person your whole life and it's not a bad thing to sleep with several people weekly, as long as you're safe about it both ways, it's not a bad thing. It's everyone's choice who and how many they sleep with, and just like I'm sure you wouldn't want everyone else worrying and gossiping about your sex life, don't worry or gossip about anyone else's. Let them be them and you be you. Besides, why is that sleeping with the same guy 500 times (an average 1 1/2 - 2 year in a relationship) is perfectly okay but sleeping with 5 guys once is not? Realistically if it's the number of peniss that have been in someone, the people in the relationships are more sexually active than the single person.

I understand your opinion Paula, but I believe that people should do whatever feels right. If someone takes necessary precautions and truly feels that the timing or person is right, then who is anyone else to tell them to wait till they're married. And honestly, nowadays most people don't wait and turn out just fine.

Auks her statement was just an opinion. Your telling her to don't worry about her comment but you took the time and tell her what's none of her business. Her business or not she still has a voice, an opinion. People claim and say let people be them and they can say w.e but people that tells them what they shouldn't do like your doing

I'm not really worried about these things, but good article

Nice article. Everyone has their own opinion and there is no right or wrong answer just as long as you feel it's right. Everyone has to know what's best for them.

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