10 Critical Warning Signs of an Eating Disorder ...

By Heather

10 Critical Warning Signs of an Eating Disorder ...

Most people understand the typical signs of an eating disorder, such as skipping meals, over exercising, or obsessing about food and calories. What is often missed, however, are the underlying, not-so-simple signs that are most overlooked of eating disorders. Coming from experience, I can tell you these 10 critical warning signs are highly possible ways to tell if you or someone you care about may have an eating disorder. While not easy to spot, these signs should not be overlooked. Always talk with someone you care about in a caring way if you believe they have an eating disorder. If you believe someone you care about, or yourself, may have an eating disorder, read these possible signs of an eating disorder to find out.

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Refusing to Eat around Others

One of the most important signs of an eating disorder is that maybe the individual doesn't essentially skip meals, but they do, in fact, avoid eating with others. Food is an intimate, yet scary issue for people with eating disorders. The disease is never just about the weight or just a matter of food, but more about what food represents to them and how they use food or a lack of food to cope with low self-esteem or other problems in life. Often, people with disordered eating will choose to always eat alone in fear of what others may think about them when they do eat.


Spending an Excessive Amount of Money on Food

This possible sign could simply be nothing more than spending a little more to eat healthy, but when a person goes into debt, neglects bills, or has nothing left over from their paycheck due to spending money on food, supplements, or the like, this is a sure fire sign of an eating disorder. There is always a constant need for food, health food, or if a person doesn't eat healthy and buys an excessive amount of unhealthy foods, it can indicate a bingeing or compulsive eating problem. Even anorexic individuals, however, can spend massive amounts on health food. Never simply assume the person is a binge eater if their food allowance is out of control. Confront the person in a caring way, or if you are suffering from this, write down on paper why buying food makes you feel better or why you feel the need to eat a certain way to fulfill a need you have. Write out alternate forms of ways you should be spending your money and where those goals might get you instead of buying more food. For instance, instead of spending all your money on food, perhaps save for an apartment, a car, or even for retirement. Someone that is truly sick may not be able to do this and at that point, professional help should be sought out.


Refusing to Eat Several Types of Food Groups

Many people cut out sugar, fat or high glycemic carbs. Some even count calories, go vegan or try another type of diet. These aren't necessarily critical signs, however when someone decides to cut fat and carb intake to a matter of eating nothing more than fruits and vegetables, and becomes fearful of other foods, this is a major warning. Sometimes, one who seems healthy is in fact a disordered eater. Stringent healthy eaters are one thing, but obsessing over health is another. Everyone should be eating more healthy forms of food from produce and natural sources of protein, fat and low glycemic carbohydrates. These food groups from nature are full of nutrients and benefits for a healthy lifestyle. When a person refuses to eat several of them, it becomes unhealthy.


Claiming to Have Multiple Food Allergies That Aren't Medically Proven

Many people suffer from food allergies, and this is not to be taken lightly when someone states they have a food allergy. However, when someone exhibits several signs of an eating disorder along with stating they have multiple food allergies, it may be an attempt to make excuses for themselves not to have to eaten certain foods or food groups. If other signs exist of an eating disorder exist, this may also be a sign of an eating disorder.


An Extreme Personality

Many people who are extremist who diet or watch their weight are prone to disordered eating. When someone is a high achiever, perfectionist, etc., and starts to exhibit other signs of disordered eating, their extreme personality can sometimes be part of the issue. This isn’t to say all people who have this personality trait have an eating disorder, however anyone with an "all or nothing" type of attitude who diets should be very careful as it is easy to develop restrictive or obsessive attitudes towards food.

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Suddenly Avoiding People or Social Situations

When a person who used to be a part of social circles or have a lot of social outings or gatherings suddenly draws inward and stays at home all the time, this may be a sign of an eating disorder if they begin to drop weight or gain large amounts of weight. Eating disorders are very powerful diseases that cause individuals to withdraw from social engagements, and outings with others. Eating or not eating becomes something they do in private. Take this as a sign that something is not right and reach out in a kind way so they don’t become defensive.


Loses Interest in Activities They Once Enjoyed

Just like depression, an eating disorder will cause a person to stop caring about activities they once enjoyed, or hobbies they once participated in. Anytime a person devotes all their energy to exercising, food, shopping for food, or dieting, this is a major red flag that something is wrong.


Becomes Extremely Defensive about Food

Anytime someone eats healthy or goes on a diet, many people will criticize them. It is important to note that just because someone eats healthy or diets, they should not be criticized, or accused of having an eating disorder. It is the time that a person gets defensive about food all the time, or avoids talking about food or their diet altogether when it becomes a warning sign. If the individual becomes angry, upset or avoids talking about their weight or diet religiously, then it could be a sign of an eating disorder. Someone who eats healthy shouldn't be criticized, and most individuals who are attempting to eat healthy for the right reasons will openly talk about it and not care what others think. When a person has an eating disorder, they will become angry when confronted and they will do it repeatedly, not just once or twice.


Loses an Extreme Amount of Weight That is Unnecessary

Obviously weight loss is a sign of an eating disorder, but many people who lose a lot of weight do not necessarily have an eating disorder if they actually needed to lose weight because they were at an unhealthy high weight. When a person loses weight when there was no need to, as in they were already at a healthy size, then this is a possible sign of an eating disorder. For example, many girls or women who are in athletics or gymnastics are most likely in shape, and would not need to lose a lot of weight, but many feel pressure to do so anyway for competition purposes or to maintain an image. When someone becomes extremely thin for no reason through their own dieting efforts, it may indicate a problem.


Body Symptoms Begin to Occur

When a person shows signs of an eating disorder, one that almost always occurs in changes in their bodily functions, such as always being cold, feeling fatigued and weak, and being moody. These signs could indicate their thyroid function may be altered, along with their mood, from a poor amount of nutrients. When the body doesn't receive the right nutrients and calories, metabolism slows along with important hormonal and adrenal functions. Hair loss, pale skin and sudden changes in appearance related to dieting can all be important issues.

If you believe someone you care about shows signs of an eating disorder, do not confront them in an angry or accusing manner. Instead, ask them how they are doing, and how things are going in their life. Don’t mention food at all and see how they respond. Remember it isn't just about food. Sometimes just knowing someone cares enough about them is all it takes for them to get themselves out of an unhealthy behavior. If the illness is there, it may not be simple to detect or fix. Eating disorders are complex diseases that are alarmingly high in our society. Seek to get someone professional help if they will not confide in you about the issue. Have you ever experienced someone you love go through an eating disorder or have you have dealt with one yourself? How did you cope?

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Oh and swollen glands and chipmunk cheeks-that was my bulimic look ... My dentist always said I had very thin enamel my mouth became cavity filled despite eating healthy foods and brushing my teeth the acids were too harsh..

Thank you SOOOO much for posting this! I am recovering from my eating disorder and not many people know or understand these things. i do not share the app with the girls in my group mainly because some articles on here about diets may trigger them however i am thrilled ti share this with them. THANK YOU for promoting awareness!!!

Thanks for posting this, I'm also recovering from an eating disorder, not many people know. I'm so glad you posted this, thank you!

This is great!! More people need to understand what an ED is and how serious they are! Amazing! Thank you!

Many people don't understand what people with ED or self induced ED go through. And I have been mocked by friends and even my own sister... I'm also recovering, however sometimes the wicked thoughts of throwing up food has struck me from time to time. Nevertheless, I try to snap out of it! :D however, I realize a lot of people really don't understand why I did what I did.

Stay strong ladies! It's so difficult but we can all get rid of those nasty and irrational thoughts! :)

It is a really secretive disease many of us are known to the typical signs to notice such as bathroom after a meal... "I ate earlier" .. Not hungry.. Defensiveness... Weight loss... But there isn't always weight loss!... coldness...excessive binges ...food being quickly gone ... I had an ed from age 11 now after 3 Rehabs I am in recovery .. i became a stripper to buy food for binges at one point had a 200$ a day habit.. You being a victim of the Evil Demon probably have your own tricks we all go about different ways That most people without an Ed know to look for that keeps a person with an ED sick I won't mention what mine were because I feel like that could be tips to keep a person with an ED sick but these are pretty obvious .. Over time a person with an eating disorder learns so many tips and tricks from experimenting new things, past experience, rehabs with fellow Ed sufferers, the Internet, etc,. So yes these things indicate a problem but not the only ones it isn't necessarily easy to detect and definitely hard to confront like any other addiction ...EDs are based on lies and secrecy.

Good article!! Actually, I usted to have am eating disorder and I can tell you:: it was HELL !! I'm so happy I recovered but anyway, there are things that just can't change at this very moment.... So I think avoid is the real solution instead of recovering. So grateful to see am article spreading the voice :3

Great article! I have had disordered eating and eating disorders for the majority of my short life. It is a hard life when battling these demons. Stay strong girls. Thanks for posting!

Bulimia becomes natural eventually the purging cycle requires no effort I will forever be able to purge my food on command whenever I want sometimes while talking to a bulimic you will notice they may hiccup and swallow that is because we use that reflex so much it becomes natural for fluids and food to come up