When you're a virgin, it's scary to think about what sex will be like. However, there's no point in stressing over certain aspects of it. Listen to Gurl's advice and stop worrying about these things:

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1. If He'll Know You're a Virgin

If He'll Know You're a Virgin There's no reason to hide the fact that you've never slept with someone. If he finds out, he'll consider himself lucky to be your first!

2. If You'll Bleed

If You'll Bleed If your hymen tears, there could be a little blood, but it won't be like anything out of a horror movie.

3. If "It" Will Fit

If "It" Will Fit It doesn't matter how big he is or how small you are, because it'll definitely fit.

4. If You're Doing It Right

If You're Doing It Right You can't be a pro your first time. Practice makes perfect.

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5. If He Likes What You Look like

If He Likes What You Look like As long as you've showered, he shouldn't mind what you look like below the belt. He'll just be happy you're stripping for him.

6. If It's Going to Be Good

If It's Going to Be Good Everyone feels differently about sex, but you won't know how much you like it until you try it.

7. When It'll Actually Happen

When It'll Actually Happen Don't push yourself to have sex before you're ready. It'll happen when it happens.

8. How Much It Will Hurt

How Much It Will Hurt If your man gets you excited enough for sex and goes slow, then you shouldn't feel any pain. Sex is supposed to be enjoyable, after all.

9. What Others Will Think

What Others Will Think Your body is none of their business. Do what makes you happy and stop worrying about your reputation.

If you're a virgin, don't stress yourself out too much by worrying about sex. Do you worry about any of these things?

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Cici
2015-10-01T20:53:21.449Z
Auks her statement was just an opinion. Your telling her to don't worry about her comment but you took the time and tell her what's none of her business. Her business or not she still has a voice, an opinion. People claim and say let people be them and they can say w.e but people that tells them what they shouldn't do like your doing
Jennapher
2015-10-01T17:18:20.959Z
Great post, Holly! No BS...why is it that guys don't seem to worry about experience like this? Umm, they were/are virgins too, right? And can we finally dispense with the myth that it will be "painful" and that you will "bleed"? If a guy has taken the time to learn a little but about female sexuality, he should know that he needs to take his time, no matter what his penis may be screaming. If he takes his time, or maybe even invests in a lubricant, the adds are all over TV, there is no reason for losing your virginity to be painful. And why does "the first time" have to be imbued with such mythology? For a man, it's like, the sooner the better. For a girl, it "should be special." Heck yeah! It should be enjoyable and fun, isn't that special too? And gee, you may just like sex so much, you'll want to do it some more, and we know how dangerous that can be! What's really ironic, Holly, is you post this very helpful, practical information at a time when some politicians want to de-fund Planned Parenthood, a place where any girl can go to get this same information, delivered without either encouragement or discouragement. And, most importantly, find out about protection!! A girl who carries a condom in her clutch isn't a slut, she's just smart!
Glit
2015-10-04T17:40:24.542Z
Isn't your hymen supposed to tear though? ((Virgin too and IDK))
Nieshaa
2015-10-01T17:49:21.302Z
I'm a virgin and I don't worry about more than half of these things.
Sapna
2015-10-01T15:50:57.706Z
Nice concise article
Chanel
2015-10-03T23:29:07.527Z
So, he gets to know whether you're a virgin or not, but you won't know if he is?...
Paula
2015-10-01T15:03:55.986Z
I wonder why they didn't tell you that information ?
Taylor
2015-10-02T14:11:24.054Z
Your hymen should tear, it should stretch. If you use lube and go slow, it'll make it a more comfortable experience for you.
st_cruz
2015-10-06T00:09:05.171Z
The hymen can be stretched or torn by a lot of different things that aren't sex (fingers, tampons, non-sexual strenuous activities, etc) so it's more than likely torn before sex. Also, some hymen tissue is flexible so it's simply moved during sex.