When you're a virgin, it's scary to think about what sex will be like. However, there's no point in stressing over certain aspects of it. Listen to Gurl's advice and stop worrying about these things:

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1. If He'll Know You're a Virgin

If He'll Know You're a Virgin There's no reason to hide the fact that you've never slept with someone. If he finds out, he'll consider himself lucky to be your first!

2. If You'll Bleed

If You'll Bleed If your hymen tears, there could be a little blood, but it won't be like anything out of a horror movie.

3. If "It" Will Fit

If "It" Will Fit It doesn't matter how big he is or how small you are, because it'll definitely fit.

4. If You're Doing It Right

If You're Doing It Right You can't be a pro your first time. Practice makes perfect.

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5. If He Likes What You Look like

If He Likes What You Look like As long as you've showered, he shouldn't mind what you look like below the belt. He'll just be happy you're stripping for him.

6. If It's Going to Be Good

If It's Going to Be Good Everyone feels differently about sex, but you won't know how much you like it until you try it.

7. When It'll Actually Happen

When It'll Actually Happen Don't push yourself to have sex before you're ready. It'll happen when it happens.

8. How Much It Will Hurt

How Much It Will Hurt If your man gets you excited enough for sex and goes slow, then you shouldn't feel any pain. Sex is supposed to be enjoyable, after all.

9. What Others Will Think

What Others Will Think Your body is none of their business. Do what makes you happy and stop worrying about your reputation.

If you're a virgin, don't stress yourself out too much by worrying about sex. Do you worry about any of these things?

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Cici
2015-10-01T21:03:35.926Z
Sorry lol phone acting up. It's a greater chance the boy will be there for that girl than one of the guys outta 5 if she has a child. Having a lot of partners isn't a good thing. If you get pregnant then what? The child lives with a woman where men Come and go, like you said a women can sleep with however many she want. But a child needs a stable home and with BOTH of their parents. Sometimes the outcome is good but sometimes it isn't. Especially when you have too many partners. And especially if you don't know who the partner is from sleeping too much. Y'all encouraging having multiple partners is okay when a lot of women have children and don't know who the father is, or had the wrong dad that don't want the child, catch a disease. You don't have to have sex to have a disease. So both of y'all opinions is a 100% correct all the way
Taylor
2015-10-02T14:11:24.054Z
Your hymen should tear, it should stretch. If you use lube and go slow, it'll make it a more comfortable experience for you.
Alyx
2015-10-01T19:22:00.069Z
Jennapher- the "it'll hurt" thing is usually due to the fact that women are nervous about it. Society has made it a sacred thing that you are ashamed to "lose" at the same time excited. But a lot of the painful experiences are from being to nervous and not being turned on enough, or if you don't get wet enough, not enough lube. Friction is a thing during sex that you do not want, so the more lube the better. A lot of first timers also don't do enough foreplay, and therefore again not turned on enough so you don't open as much and have less natural lube. His penis CAN be too big that it hurts. It'll always fit, but it can hurt. A lot of pornstars with big penis' turn pornstars because they couldn't get laid any other way.
Islandgal007
2015-10-04T09:34:57.377Z
I'm still a virgin n will be 35 this November. My question is will I bleed if I have sex after marriage which is next year or so. Im still looking for a partner though n have been dating but it never works out. I'm really active in the gym n do strength training twice a week n cardio 3 times a week. I'm not sure if my hymen is still intact at this age.
Taylor
2015-10-07T15:07:40.603Z
Some people don't even have hymens. Most times you bleed are if your not ready, don't use lube, and he's too rough. It will just stretch of your do it right, tearing it will cause pain.
Michelle
2015-10-02T01:36:26.137Z
I'm not really worried about these things, but good article
Raven
2015-10-01T13:27:54.962Z
Thanks for the advice I needed it 😄😂
Sara
2015-10-01T17:23:57.290Z
I understand your opinion Paula, but I believe that people should do whatever feels right. If someone takes necessary precautions and truly feels that the timing or person is right, then who is anyone else to tell them to wait till they're married. And honestly, nowadays most people don't wait and turn out just fine.
aurorag97
2016-12-01T16:17:14.212Z
Oh lawd I remember my first. Was super excited & he did go slow & was in so much pain with just the tip (sorry if TMI) and I bleed for 4 days. Waking up to spotting. I guess everyone is just different. It's depends both on you & your partner.