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9 Things All Virgins Need to Stop Stressing about and Chill ...

9 Things All Virgins Need to Stop Stressing about and Chill ...
By Holly • Jan 21, 2021 • MD

When you're a virgin, it's scary to think about what sex will be like. However, there's no point in stressing over certain aspects of it. Listen to Gurl's advice and stop worrying about these things:

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1. If He'll Know You're a Virgin

If He'll Know You're a Virgin There's no reason to hide the fact that you've never slept with someone. If he finds out, he'll consider himself lucky to be your first!

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2. If You'll Bleed

If You'll Bleed If your hymen tears, there could be a little blood, but it won't be like anything out of a horror movie.

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3. If "It" Will Fit

If "It" Will Fit It doesn't matter how big he is or how small you are, because it'll definitely fit.

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4. If You're Doing It Right

If You're Doing It Right You can't be a pro your first time. Practice makes perfect.

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5. If He Likes What You Look like

If He Likes What You Look like As long as you've showered, he shouldn't mind what you look like below the belt. He'll just be happy you're stripping for him.

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6. If It's Going to Be Good

If It's Going to Be Good Everyone feels differently about sex, but you won't know how much you like it until you try it.

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7. When It'll Actually Happen

When It'll Actually Happen Don't push yourself to have sex before you're ready. It'll happen when it happens.

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8. How Much It Will Hurt

How Much It Will Hurt If your man gets you excited enough for sex and goes slow, then you shouldn't feel any pain. Sex is supposed to be enjoyable, after all.

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9. What Others Will Think

What Others Will Think Your body is none of their business. Do what makes you happy and stop worrying about your reputation.

If you're a virgin, don't stress yourself out too much by worrying about sex. Do you worry about any of these things?

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  • Kim

    2015-10-01T21:12:33.676Z

    Nice article. Everyone has their own opinion and there is no right or wrong answer just as long as you feel it's right. Everyone has to know what's best for them.
  • Sapna

    2015-10-01T15:50:57.706Z

    Nice concise article
  • aurorag97

    2016-12-01T16:17:14.212Z

    Oh lawd I remember my first. Was super excited & he did go slow & was in so much pain with just the tip (sorry if TMI) and I bleed for 4 days. Waking up to spotting. I guess everyone is just different. It's depends both on you & your partner.
  • Cici

    2015-10-01T15:48:35.814Z

    Agree with Paula. But it in fact depends if thats what you want for yourself. Remember it all depends on you. How about this: if you think and know for sure you want to be with one person and one person only, then you should wait, get to know the person for a year or two and start from there. If you think and know for sure you want to have multiple of partners n not regret it then do it. But don't complain when you regret it. I agree with marriage before sex. It's not 100% positive that it will be an a forever marriage but I'm pretty sure, there will be less kids with different fathers and mothers, less confused kids, a stable home, and so fourth.
  • Cici

    2015-10-01T21:03:35.926Z

    Sorry lol phone acting up. It's a greater chance the boy will be there for that girl than one of the guys outta 5 if she has a child. Having a lot of partners isn't a good thing. If you get pregnant then what? The child lives with a woman where men Come and go, like you said a women can sleep with however many she want. But a child needs a stable home and with BOTH of their parents. Sometimes the outcome is good but sometimes it isn't. Especially when you have too many partners. And especially if you don't know who the partner is from sleeping too much. Y'all encouraging having multiple partners is okay when a lot of women have children and don't know who the father is, or had the wrong dad that don't want the child, catch a disease. You don't have to have sex to have a disease. So both of y'all opinions is a 100% correct all the way
  • Paula

    2015-10-01T15:03:55.986Z

    I wonder why they didn't tell you that information ?
  • Chanel

    2015-10-03T23:29:07.527Z

    So, he gets to know whether you're a virgin or not, but you won't know if he is?...
  • Islandgal007

    2015-10-04T09:34:57.377Z

    I'm still a virgin n will be 35 this November. My question is will I bleed if I have sex after marriage which is next year or so. Im still looking for a partner though n have been dating but it never works out. I'm really active in the gym n do strength training twice a week n cardio 3 times a week. I'm not sure if my hymen is still intact at this age.
  • st_cruz

    2015-10-02T15:31:50.772Z

    For all the people arguing, places that teach abstinence and no sex until marriage have the highest teen pregnancy rates (;
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