9 Things All Virgins Need to Stop Stressing about and Chill ...

9 Things All Virgins Need to Stop Stressing about and Chill ...
By Holly • Jan 21, 2021 MD

When you're a virgin, it's scary to think about what sex will be like. However, there's no point in stressing over certain aspects of it. Listen to Gurl's advice and stop worrying about these things:

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1. If He'll Know You're a Virgin

If He'll Know You're a Virgin There's no reason to hide the fact that you've never slept with someone. If he finds out, he'll consider himself lucky to be your first!

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2. If You'll Bleed

If You'll Bleed If your hymen tears, there could be a little blood, but it won't be like anything out of a horror movie.

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3. If "It" Will Fit

If "It" Will Fit It doesn't matter how big he is or how small you are, because it'll definitely fit.

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4. If You're Doing It Right

If You're Doing It Right You can't be a pro your first time. Practice makes perfect.

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5. If He Likes What You Look like

If He Likes What You Look like As long as you've showered, he shouldn't mind what you look like below the belt. He'll just be happy you're stripping for him.

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6. If It's Going to Be Good

If It's Going to Be Good Everyone feels differently about sex, but you won't know how much you like it until you try it.

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7. When It'll Actually Happen

When It'll Actually Happen Don't push yourself to have sex before you're ready. It'll happen when it happens.

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8. How Much It Will Hurt

How Much It Will Hurt If your man gets you excited enough for sex and goes slow, then you shouldn't feel any pain. Sex is supposed to be enjoyable, after all.

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9. What Others Will Think

What Others Will Think Your body is none of their business. Do what makes you happy and stop worrying about your reputation.

If you're a virgin, don't stress yourself out too much by worrying about sex. Do you worry about any of these things?

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  • Sapna

    2015-10-01T15:50:57.706Z

    Nice concise article
  • st_cruz

    2015-10-02T15:31:50.772Z

    For all the people arguing, places that teach abstinence and no sex until marriage have the highest teen pregnancy rates (;
  • Cici

    2015-10-01T20:56:37.790Z

    *People like you. Try to tell them different and what they should worry about. She may have different views, brought up differently, believes it's wrong. Whatever the factor is: Let her have her voice. Her opinion isn't incorrect but it isn't right either. A girl that sleeps with the same person 500 and the girl that sleeps with 5 guys; the one that slept with i
  • Paula

    2015-10-01T15:03:55.986Z

    I wonder why they didn't tell you that information ?
  • Bunny

    2016-12-01T19:57:04.021Z

    Sounds familiar😚
  • Islandgal007

    2015-10-04T09:34:57.377Z

    I'm still a virgin n will be 35 this November. My question is will I bleed if I have sex after marriage which is next year or so. Im still looking for a partner though n have been dating but it never works out. I'm really active in the gym n do strength training twice a week n cardio 3 times a week. I'm not sure if my hymen is still intact at this age.
  • Taylor

    2015-10-07T15:07:40.603Z

    Some people don't even have hymens. Most times you bleed are if your not ready, don't use lube, and he's too rough. It will just stretch of your do it right, tearing it will cause pain.
  • alka

    2015-10-04T07:01:55.319Z

    @st_cruz that is the truth!!!
  • Maria

    2015-10-02T07:19:16.767Z

    I'm still virgin and also not worried about any of these things. Anyway, thanks for posting @Holly. :)
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