When you're a virgin, it's scary to think about what sex will be like. However, there's no point in stressing over certain aspects of it. Listen to Gurl's advice and stop worrying about these things:
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1. If He'll Know You're a Virgin
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There's no reason to hide the fact that you've never slept with someone. If he finds out, he'll consider himself lucky to be your first!
2. If You'll Bleed
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If your hymen tears, there could be a little blood, but it won't be like anything out of a horror movie.
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3. If "It" Will Fit
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It doesn't matter how big he is or how small you are, because it'll definitely fit.
4. If You're Doing It Right
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You can't be a pro your first time. Practice makes perfect.
5. If He Likes What You Look like
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As long as you've showered, he shouldn't mind what you look like below the belt. He'll just be happy you're stripping for him.
6. If It's Going to Be Good
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Everyone feels differently about sex, but you won't know how much you like it until you try it.
7. When It'll Actually Happen
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Don't push yourself to have sex before you're ready. It'll happen when it happens.
8. How Much It Will Hurt
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If your man gets you excited enough for sex and goes slow, then you shouldn't feel any pain. Sex is supposed to be enjoyable, after all.
9. What Others Will Think
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Your body is none of their business. Do what makes you happy and stop worrying about your reputation.
If you're a virgin, don't stress yourself out too much by worrying about sex. Do you worry about any of these things?
Comments
Bunny: Sounds familiar😚
Cici: Agree with Paula. But it in fact depends if thats what you want for yourself. Remember it all depends on you. How about this: if you think and know for sure you want to be with one person and one person only, then you should wait, get to know the person for a year or two and start from there. If you think and know for sure you want to have multiple of partners n not regret it then do it. But don't complain when you regret it. I agree with marriage before sex. It's not 100% positive that it will be an a forever marriage but I'm pretty sure, there will be less kids with different fathers and mothers, less confused kids, a stable home, and so fourth.
Nieshaa: I'm a virgin and I don't worry about more than half of these things.
st_cruz: For all the people arguing, places that teach abstinence and no sex until marriage have the highest teen pregnancy rates (;
Taylor: Your hymen should tear, it should stretch. If you use lube and go slow, it'll make it a more comfortable experience for you.
Paula: You should wait until you get married so there are no mistakes that will leave you regretting what you did that's why it's not good because you might find yourself afterwards sleeping with to many people there is a reason why you are still a virgin think about it
Sara: I understand your opinion Paula, but I believe that people should do whatever feels right. If someone takes necessary precautions and truly feels that the timing or person is right, then who is anyone else to tell them to wait till they're married. And honestly, nowadays most people don't wait and turn out just fine.
aurorag97: Oh lawd I remember my first. Was super excited & he did go slow & was in so much pain with just the tip (sorry if TMI) and I bleed for 4 days. Waking up to spotting. I guess everyone is just different. It's depends both on you & your partner.
Taylor: Some people don't even have hymens. Most times you bleed are if your not ready, don't use lube, and he's too rough. It will just stretch of your do it right, tearing it will cause pain.
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