9 Things All Virgins Need to Stop Stressing about and Chill ...

9 Things All Virgins Need to Stop Stressing about and Chill ...
By Holly • Jan 21, 2021 MD

When you're a virgin, it's scary to think about what sex will be like. However, there's no point in stressing over certain aspects of it. Listen to Gurl's advice and stop worrying about these things:

1. If He'll Know You're a Virgin

If He'll Know You're a Virgin There's no reason to hide the fact that you've never slept with someone. If he finds out, he'll consider himself lucky to be your first!

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2. If You'll Bleed

If You'll Bleed If your hymen tears, there could be a little blood, but it won't be like anything out of a horror movie.

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3. If "It" Will Fit

If "It" Will Fit It doesn't matter how big he is or how small you are, because it'll definitely fit.

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4. If You're Doing It Right

If You're Doing It Right You can't be a pro your first time. Practice makes perfect.

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5. If He Likes What You Look like

If He Likes What You Look like As long as you've showered, he shouldn't mind what you look like below the belt. He'll just be happy you're stripping for him.

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6. If It's Going to Be Good

If It's Going to Be Good Everyone feels differently about sex, but you won't know how much you like it until you try it.

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7. When It'll Actually Happen

When It'll Actually Happen Don't push yourself to have sex before you're ready. It'll happen when it happens.

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8. How Much It Will Hurt

How Much It Will Hurt If your man gets you excited enough for sex and goes slow, then you shouldn't feel any pain. Sex is supposed to be enjoyable, after all.

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9. What Others Will Think

What Others Will Think Your body is none of their business. Do what makes you happy and stop worrying about your reputation.

If you're a virgin, don't stress yourself out too much by worrying about sex. Do you worry about any of these things?

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  • Bunny

    2016-12-01T19:57:04.021Z

    Sounds familiar😚
  • Paula

    2015-10-01T15:02:08.318Z

    You should wait until you get married so there are no mistakes that will leave you regretting what you did that's why it's not good because you might find yourself afterwards sleeping with to many people there is a reason why you are still a virgin think about it
  • Sapna

    2015-10-01T15:50:57.706Z

    Nice concise article
  • Cici

    2015-10-01T21:03:35.926Z

    Sorry lol phone acting up. It's a greater chance the boy will be there for that girl than one of the guys outta 5 if she has a child. Having a lot of partners isn't a good thing. If you get pregnant then what? The child lives with a woman where men Come and go, like you said a women can sleep with however many she want. But a child needs a stable home and with BOTH of their parents. Sometimes the outcome is good but sometimes it isn't. Especially when you have too many partners. And especially if you don't know who the partner is from sleeping too much. Y'all encouraging having multiple partners is okay when a lot of women have children and don't know who the father is, or had the wrong dad that don't want the child, catch a disease. You don't have to have sex to have a disease. So both of y'all opinions is a 100% correct all the way
  • Maria

    2015-10-02T07:19:16.767Z

    I'm still virgin and also not worried about any of these things. Anyway, thanks for posting @Holly. :)
  • Kim

    2015-10-01T21:12:33.676Z

    Nice article. Everyone has their own opinion and there is no right or wrong answer just as long as you feel it's right. Everyone has to know what's best for them.
  • Chanel

    2015-10-03T23:29:07.527Z

    So, he gets to know whether you're a virgin or not, but you won't know if he is?...
  • st_cruz

    2015-10-02T15:31:50.772Z

    For all the people arguing, places that teach abstinence and no sex until marriage have the highest teen pregnancy rates (;
  • Taylor

    2015-10-07T15:07:40.603Z

    Some people don't even have hymens. Most times you bleed are if your not ready, don't use lube, and he's too rough. It will just stretch of your do it right, tearing it will cause pain.
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